PERSONALS

JULY 9, 1993

GAY PEOPLE'S CHRONICLE 25

Lesbians

Wanted: One good woman (28-38) Description: Intelligent, funny, easy-going, together, definitely single. Physical Characteristics: Looks like, feels like, acts like, smells like a woman. Reward: Commitment, monogamy, passion, honesty, humor The Catch? None

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Attractive, GWF 28 androgynous, short blonde hair, blue eyes, affectionate, sensitive, caring, playful, and romantic. Loves animals, going out or quiet evenings, music, sports, movies and nature. Seeks androgynous, şemi-femme, jock, or butch GWF with similar interests who is looking for a good relationship and person! Smoker/light drinker

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"Big Boned Gal" Artsy/Spiritual/Animal lover seeks kind gentle spirit that is politically aware and clean and sober please 30-40ish. 1517

Bachelorette seeks other bachelorettes for platonic good times. A friend who is flexible, enjoys a variety of pleasures. I'm 27 and an active fem. I consider myself funny, intelligent, and sincere. What kind of circles do you run? Respond to all! 1519

GWF, mature, wants long term relationship; you're stable, loving, monogamous, fun, honest, romantic and looking for commitment with same. I am sensitive, caring, sincere and hope you are out there, also looking for a special woman and long term relationship. 1520

Position Available: Artist seeking eclectic lover. GWF, Blonde/blue, 5'8", 118, 32, vegetarian, mint condition-inside and out. Loves include: music (107.9 and most genre's except RAP), travel, karate, downhill skiing, personal growth, irreligious spirituality, monogamy, sailing, animals, motorcycling, arts, eccentric fun. Ideal candidate has minimum 2 yrs. experience, similar interest, somewhat skilled in culinary arts (I'm pathetic!), possibly stylishly androgynous (Lennox, lang), capable of unique, right-brain, abstract thinking; good interpersonal communication skills, depth, is healthy, ectomorphic, independent, somewhat chic, attractive, non-violent, kindhearted, and doesn't french kiss their "friends". 24-35. College education preferred. Send for application. No druggies, drinkies, smokies, barflies or carnivores. 1527

GWF, 28, 5'6", 125lbs. Enjoys movies, music, dancing, picnics, long walks, quiet evenings; and cuddling. Seeks femme GWF 25-45 for long-term relationship. smoker/light drinker. no drugs 1528

GWF, 34, Tired of bar scene to meet people. Outgoing & open to ideas of sharing life's precious moments from sunrises to sunsets, mountain tops to open fields, + athletics to musicals "To see twice the beauty when shared with a friend" Need that "friend" to be honest, sincere with direction in life. Prefer femme. Qualities I seek are ones I give. 1530

It is time to venture out. I've been away too long, and been on the merry go round called relationship. Meeting new people and doing exciting things, that's what I WANT. Where is the woman who wants to have fun and not move in after the first date. If you have a sense a humor, like to dance, full body massages, and can enjoy sexual energy without emotional attachment. Then we have a lot in common. I'm waiting. 1553 GWF 26, who is tired of all the games. I'm an attractive, affectionate Italian who is shy at first, honest, romantic, inquisitive and monogamous. Seeking an attractive feminine female 21-31 who is sincere, passionate, affectionate, honest and also monogamous. I like a variety of things from sunrises to sports non-smokers preferred. Lake and Ashtabula counties preferred but will answer all. Your photo gets mine. 1537

Semi-professional, sensuous, feminine GWF, 35 to 45, friendship relationship. Enjoys movies, sports, music, outdoors and the beach. Believes in honesty, communication, sense of humor and sharing. I work in the public eye so I am very discreet. All replies answered. Am a social drinker and smoker, no drugs. 1538

In search of forever! YOU: fun, feminine, fit, professional, intelligent WF 32-42. ME: WF 39 and all of the above. Please write photos welcome. 1539 Lonely, passionate, loving romantic B/femme 39. Independent mother 6 and 9 yrs. Ever ached to be held and loved by someone special? I long for this everyday. Still a baby, only one other relationship. A little shy at first. Searching for one good woman to give myself to totally. 35 to 50. Drink, smoke o.k., no hard drugs. Race unimportant 1540

GWF 28, Professional with off beat spirit wanting to meet bright, professional, eclectic, romantics 26-33. Must be non-smoking, adventurous and able to have meaningful conversations deep into the night. AkronCleveland area preferred. 1541

Oh Sumptuous moment slower go, I am intelligent, honest, educated, athletic, diverse, petite, and love to dance. Looking for similar, semi-femme to femme, non-smoker who is into a no-expectations, caring, intimate/physical relationship. Akron/Cleveland. Letters, please. 1564

GBF, 33, attractive femme, educated, intelligent, honest, sincere, sensitive and compassionate. Looking for friendship, possible relationship. Trust and honesty are very important to me. Lets have some fun. 1715

Journal Entry Jan 3, 1993: To be in the vortex of change. To find excitement! To come into my sexuality. To have lovers. To not fall in love. To fall in lust. To practice safer sex. To find women to court me, to want me, initiate, to know the game, to play it honestly. To turn me on. To step on all my sexual boundaries. To teach me. To just do it. 1567

GWF, 24 seeks Lesbian, 25-34 who enjoys art, coffee, music, beer, cats and exploring the wild and intense side of life. Must appreciate tall women. 1575

Affectionate, loving GWF, youthful 35, wants friend, lover, roommate, travel and business partner. Into nature, music, writing, massage, poetry in motion, sexercise and everything else. 1574

O.K! We have had it! GWF and GWM (best friends) sick of neurotic, emotionally draining, selfish, selfabsorbed, living at home, parents clueless, unstable, dependant, no clue to where they are going, significant others. We are looking for real people, with real feelings, real goals and a wide variety of interests. Humor a must! Write to Benny (GWM) OR Joon (GWF). Will answer all. 1580

Take me out for a test drive! My motor is racing and I'm waiting. Check it out. Visual and hands-on inspection encouraged. Ages 20-45.1587

Sincere, honest, loving GBF. Searching for an ideal mate, caring, loving and honest. No drugs, love outdoors, quiet times alone, movies, etc. Fill in the blanks. Race unimportant just be yourself. 1584

24 yr. old very confused and curious WF is looking for a femme to be friends with and maybe more. Must be willing to go slow. I am a non drinker/smoker looking for same. Discretion a must. Looking for Akron area or South. 1583

GWF, 49, seeking person with like interests enjoy gourmet cooking and fine restaurants, gatherings of friends or quiet evenings, classical or disco, dance music, boating or reading, good conversation and good laughs. If your over 39, enjoy life, please connect.1585

Looking for emotionally mature, honest, open, sensitive, intelligent, educated, uninhibited, strong-willed GF between 25-45 for friendship and/or possible relationship. Must like children, have sense of humor and previous experience, express self well, be freespirited, employed, and able to compromise. 1588 European bred designer who loves meeting new people. Former "shock" model whose style & looks are as diverse as her personality & interests... you can never have too many friends. Become a "link" on my golden chain of friendship. 1675

Hey! Over here! I'm the one you've been looking for. GWF, 40's, degreed creative professional. Love Cleveland Public Theatre, camping, dancing, music, the Canadian Rockies & spontaneity. Dial that number, you know what to do do it at the beep! 1676

Energetic, fit, attractive GWF would like to meet attractive, physically-fit, professionals over 30 and interested in fun, adventure and challenge. My passions include working out, cycling, hiking, camping, music, dancing, soulful conversations, intimacy and romance. Although a monogamous relationship would be fabulous, I'm also interested in developing friendships. Cleveland area, no drugs or smoking. 1677 GBF, 46, looking for a good BF butch between 46-55. Movies, walking, or just a good time together. 1518

GWF, 31, attractive, intelligent, monogamous, zaftig, affectionate, romantic, loves animals, outdoors, nature, movies, sports, social drinker, non-smoker. call or write. I will answer you 1687

Summer winds through your window. Music is playing, and candles are lit. You love the way I wash your hair and body as you lay blindfolded to the world. I dry you, lotion you, pamper your every wish. Write me. 1693

"Attractive, feminine, GWF, 35, good health, home, career, and education, selfishly seeks more. Interest include a passion for wildlife, clean country living, golfing, fishing (have to toss them back) and a secret desire to take country dance lessons. Seeking feminine, GWF 30+ with similar interests. Lake/Ashtabula area preferred.

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Big, bold, bright, beautiful (but not Butch!) GWF, 45 seeks feminist spiritually centered, emotionally stable GWF 40+. Enjoy women's spirituality, music, movies, travel, long walks, food and quiet times at home. Non smoker, social drinker, no drugs. 1695

Did she steal your soul, then tie your heart to her bumper and drive to Mexico? Forget the losing butthead! This 32 year old semi-femme is seeking others from my planet. Cedar Point, camping, comedians, fitness, live music and roadtrips. Need only friendships. Commitment to physical relationship for one hot summer! 1696

GBF, 36, 5'4", 125lbs interested in meeting women of color who are independent, introspective and intelligent. I prefer slim women who are sophisticated yet down to earth. 1714

Expression of faith-GWF sought: relates to family, takes care of love, rises to love. Style is easy, sporting, sociable, liberal, not cheap or superficial. Has character, humor, imagination, beauty of purpose, rhythm, direction, emotions deep, wholesome attitude, reliable, mature, has conviction. Mental serves to assure comfort, inspire, responds to need; is courageous. Sought by, GWF, 33. 1712

GWF,36,5'5", 125lbs, attractive, affectionate, goodhearted. Want to share summer fun with an intelligent, physically fit, adventurous woman! Prefer femme or androgynous. Enjoy weekend getaways, picnics, concerts, quiet evenings, and more quiet evenings. Nonsmokers 1713

Androgynous GWF, 33, Is regal, honorable, has strength, courage, timing, dignity, is dedicated, compassionate, protective, has brilliance, purpose. Enduring, unstoppable conviction, brings grace/meaning to romance. An unfailing beacon, love is in strong hands! Passion is tremendous. Serves to soothe, inspire, nurture. One love at a time. 1716

IGWF, 35, with husband, no children, beginning process of "coming out". Seeking honest, sincere, caring, spiritual GF friends in Youngstown area to help me through. I like animals, children, reading, cooking, yoga, acim, quiet, nature, etc. No drugs. Occasionally drink. 1739

GWF, 34, Fit, femme, fun, blond/blue, beautiful. Seeks adventurous, energetic femme, who likes, music, cooking, water skiing, art, walks, bike-riding, shopping. Must be sensitive, intelligent, friendship, possible relationship. 1740

GWF, 23, looking to meet women who enjoy late night walks, sleeping in on Sundays and are fed up with the bar scene. Friendship first, then? Will answer all. 1745

Gay white female, seeking and attractive, fun-loving, secure and experienced white female who enjoys the finer things in life. My interests include dining out, cultural events and romantic evenings at home. 1749

GWF, 34, full-figured gal from the northeast who likes beaches and sunshine and walks at night. I'm sensitive, creative, and quiet and am looking for a gentle, intelligent, clean-living woman. If you're out there get in touch. 1755

Lipstick Lesbian: 45+, professional-discreet. Seeks same: 35-55 femme/butch at heart. I want to share dinners, showers and my bed with the right Ms. Wonderful, without commitments who knows... it could lead to long term. I am honest, trustworthy, sensual, passionate, a bit shy. Please... no games, no booz-smokers "ok". 1758

Dear Dr. Ruby,

Adventurous, affectionate, charming, humourous, intelligent, romantic androgynous SWF, 33 is interested in meeting new friends for sharing/exploring. Laughter is a must! Enjoy indoor/outdoor activities: Tangier/Taco Bell or theatre/rock concerts. Friendship/communication must happen before commitment. Write or call this summer. 1762

Lipstick lesbian seeks same, GWF 25-35, for morning Java and Janine Turner at night. Loves: local music, art, thrifting and thought-provoking conversation. If you're into preserving the environment, cats, breakfast, foreign films, the Maniacs, Mozart then call me. 1763

GWF Eastern Cleveland suburbanite seeks the company of a pretty, discreet, passive, feminine, honest, educated woman 30-50, who loves to be treated like a lady. I enjoy music, theatre, long drives and pleasing and pampering a woman. Non-smokers and no drugs please. 1764

GWF, 42, advanced degrees, professional and independent. Likes travel, theatre, ballet, art and literature, music, and environmental activities. Desires professional, degreed, independent, androgynous friend for cultural and sensual activities. 1809

I'm searching for a special butch, that's not afraid of fat. Cause someone said that thin is in, but fat is where it's at. So if you like a lot of meat, personality that can't be beat. Write to me, I'll answer you. If you send me a picture, I'll send you one too. N.W. Ohio 1810

GWF, 26, 5'7", 120#, Summertime, perfect time to make new friends. I like to read, alternative music and foreign movies. 1814

GBF, bit shy 40+, femme, looking for friendship. 40 and over preferred. I can be discreet, no drugs, social drinker, race unimportant. Femme, yes, androgynous, o.k. 1817

Greek Goddess very sexy, exceptional slender European curves. Beautiful bronze tan. Great sense of humor. In the process of relocating from California. Interested in meeting Ohio women who are professional, trustworthy and honest. All answered SAGAPO! 1821

'm a 34 year old neophyte of personal ads looking for love in all the possible places. I'm quiet, sensitive, artistic, intellectual and waiting for Aphrodite to alight on my soul. Any takers? 1725

GWF-looking for friend or relationship (whichever works) with someone who can mak me laugh, is witty, fun and responsible. I like to do most anything. Social drinker, smoker. Prefer femme, 43-51. I'm 5'4", 115lbs., blond. Westside. 1828

ASK DR. RUBY

Help! I've got a crush on a "straight" woman I met playing softball for her father's team for a tournament. We won, and while celebrating at a local bar, her obnoxious friends (who knew I had a girlfriend at the time) kept "egging" me on: "Say, she's gorgeous, huh? What do you think?" And they wouldn't stop-so I said "She's cute but nothing I'd want to fuck." Then they backed away. I only said that because they were intimidating me.

Dear "Love Creates a Lover,"

That statement is so true, because only love can bring two people together, not a group of friends trying to be the matchmakers. It may be possible that the young lady is "in the closet," so to speak. But no one can open her closet door but herself. Try being her friend for starters.

One of the best qualities in a relationship is the fact that you can be friends as well as lovers. Have you ever had a crush on someone you were good friends with? Only time will tell if you two were meant to be. As a

Well years later I just happen to be single when they all came out again. Her friends still tell me she's “straight” but my friends see her constantly staring at me or dancing directly in front of me I've had her bump me. I'm wondering if it's a cruel joke-she looks like family, but I think she's having a problem coming to terms with herself.

I don't know what to do! I'm not into "labels," I'm just me.

Signed,

Love creates a lover, not society

friend you can also inquire about her love interests. Does she know that you are a lesbian? Also remember that friends do communicate and confide in each other. Maybe she will confide in you the closer you two get.

One thing you can be sure of is you can always be friends no matter what happens. Remember that you can never have too many friends. Please keep me posted on your new-found friendship.

Love, Dr. Ruby

Dr. Ruby, whose advice column appeared in Ohio's Night Out, will now appear in every other issue of the Chronicle. Send your questions about sex, safer sex, and matters of the heart to Dr. Ruby, care of the Health Issues Taskforce, 2250 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, Ohio 44115.

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